Since this happens with all your shoes, I'd say you probably overpronate when you walk or run? Does the below description below describe your shoe wear?
http://www.runnersworld.com/article/0,7 ... -0,00.htmlHeel and Forefoot Wear:
Significant wear in the heel and the ball of the foot extending to the big toe.
Diagnosis: Runners who overpronate, or roll their feet too far inward as they land, commonly show this wear pattern. They often have flat arches and a more flexible foot, so it rotates farther inward on the ground. Too much rotation at the hip or knee can also cause overpronation.
Recommendation: Shoes that provide a lot of arch support can help overpronators limit the inward roll and keep their stride in line. Since they break down soles more quickly than other runners with the extra rotation on the ground, overpronators should wear heavier shoes with more durable rubber outsoles, such as the Brooks Trance 7 (see the Fall Shoe Guide).
I would recommend getting to a runner's specialty store. Good ones will do an analysis of your stride and recommend a proper shoe based on your needs. Including size needs.
I have never heard about a hole in the big toe in such a short time period in the upper part of the shoe, so I definitely recommend getting to a specialty store. See if you can talk to someone there that has been running for a LONG time. There can be newbies there sometimes that don't know what they're talking about. So ask the sales person some questions about how long they have been running and how often they run (daily,weekly mileage etc.). If they look like they're confused with the last few questions, move on.
See if you have one of these stores near you:
http://www.roadrunnersports.com/They usually have treadmills and other gizmos to recommend a good shoe for you. My running partner went there and went through their set-up and he said it picked a shoe he would have picked on his own. So I think it works?
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